A abstract from a book ,
Win/Loose:
"....Whenever love is give on a conditional basis,when someone has to earn love,what is being communicated to them is that they are not intrinsically valuable or lovable.Values does not lie inside them, it is outside.It is a comparison with somebodt else or against some expectation.
And what happens to a young mind and heart,highly vulnerable,highly dependent on support and emotional affirmation of the parents,in the face of conditional love?The child id molded,shaped, and programmed in the WIN/LOOSE mentality.
If i am better than my brother,my parents will love more..."
Seven Habits Of Highly Effective People
Suresh
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